I’m Steve. Welcome to my world. Sorry if this initial post gets a bit wordy, but I want to give you some background on why I’m writing this and where it’s going. So let’s hit it.
This blog will follow me on a journey that’s extremely personal. At times it will be hard for me to be open about things, but I’ll do my best. I am on a mission to get my life back. For as long as I’ve been alive, I have been the ultimate yo-yo when it comes to weight and fitness. When I was a kid I was kind of chunky. I never really felt comfortable with myself. Then as a teen I was (at least I think) a pretty decent athlete. I played baseball in the summer, football in the winter. Throw in some pickup basketball and hockey games and I really thinned out. I was constantly active. But then in high school is where my absolutely terrible decision making started to take hold. For reasons I’d rather not get into, I decided to give up baseball and football. I was stupid. It made sense to me at the time, but as I got older this was a decision I started to regret every. single. day. I started to really put on weight. And I started smoking cigarettes. I was a terrible mess. By the time I graduated I was pretty huge. I went off to college that way only getting worse. Then one day in my junior year of college I decided I’d had enough. I remember the day vividly. I walked upstairs in my house and got completely winded. That’s where I was. I couldn’t handle a flight of stairs. At that exact moment, I decided to make some changes. I quit smoking cold turkey, started eating healthier and working out again. By the time I graduated from college I had lost 55 pounds and was in great shape.
Then I hit my mid-twenties. At this point I was still working out, but my weekends started to consist mostly of beer, hangovers and more beer. Don’t get me wrong, I had some good times. But it wasn’t exactly the healthiest time of my life. Just thinking about the amount of money I drank away kind of makes me sick. Then in 2007, I met my wife. Over the course of a few years we got married and had our son. Life got busy. And my health suffered. Badly. I put on some serious weight. Again, I never really felt comfortable with myself. The past few months all that’s been running through my head is that I’m going to be 35 in June and my body feels like I’m 65 (no offense to any 65 year olds that might be reading this). But I decided that I didn’t want to feel like this anymore. I no longer want to be miserable. I no longer want to be completely self-conscious all the time. And most importantly, I don’t want to be a bad example to my son. I want him to see me as strong and able to protect him. I want him to learn the importance of eating right and taking care of your body. And I want to be around to see him have children of his own. If I kept on the path I was on, that would not happen.
So a few months ago I started to overhaul my diet and make small changes in activity – taking the stairs instead of the elevator, etc. I started to lose some weight. Then I ordered a copy of P90X3 (you know the infomercials) and I started doing that. The weight started falling off. Today was day 33 of 90. I haven’t missed a day and I don’t plan on it. In fact, I’m enjoying this program so much that I just signed on to be a Beachbody Coach so that I can help other people in the same situation as me.
The goal I set for myself was to be in better shape by my 35th birthday - June 18th. A big part of being able to achieve your goals is accepting where you are currently, setting a starting point. When it comes to fitness and weight loss, that usually means taking some “before” pictures. This is something I’ve never done before and was really afraid of doing because I’ve always been so self-conscious that I wasn’t comfortable with people seeing it. I’ve never even taken my shirt off at the beach. I’ve just never felt good about it, even when I was in pretty good shape. So when I started P90X3, I had my wife take some “before” photos of me on day 1. I wasn’t happy with what I saw, but what even she doesn’t know is that I actually took some “before” pictures of myself mirror-pic style back a few months ago on that day that I decided to make a change. I can’t believe I’m doing this, but those pictures are below:
I felt horrible that day. I weighed in at 213 lbs. and 27.7% body fat. This is when I felt “65.”
I started P90X3 eight weeks after those pictures were taken. Here are my Day 1 and Day 30 updates. I’m getting there. As of Day 30 I’m down to 193 lbs. and 22.5% body fat. I’m really excited to see where I can get by Day 90.
As I mentioned earlier, I’ve also become a Beachbody Coach. This blog is about my personal journey so I won’t turn it into a big push for Beachbody products, but I will say that I’ve never seen results like what I’m getting from P90X3. The reason I became a coach is that I truly believe in these products. If you commit to it, you’ll love what you get out of it. I became a coach not because the world is full of elite athletes that need a little extra encouragement, but because the world is full of people just like me; people that have busy lives - spouses, kids, jobs; people that struggle daily with trying to stay healthy; people that know it’s time to make some changes in their lives but maybe don’t know where to begin. And so my hope is that those people will find this blog and I can be an inspiration to at least one of them.
So let’s get going…
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I hope you’ll join me.